Bitchin

Bitchin

Truth is a deep kindness that teaches us to be content in our everyday life and share with the people the same happiness.” – Khalil Gibran

Hey guys! I hope you’re all enjoying the holiday season! I have been watching Stranger Things honestly non-stop for a few days now. If you haven’t watched it. I encourage you to! It has to be one of the most thrilling T.V shows I’ve seen in quite a while!

I must say, this is the first year I’ve actually felt the holiday spirit in quite some time. I remember a few years ago an old friend/roommate of mine kept Halloween decorations up, all through December until mid-January.   Because I tend to roll my eyes at anything red and green wrapped in gold or silver. But this year feels different. I thought it was because I put my RL tree up early. Then I thought it might have been because my boyfriend has been listening to Christmas music since November. But I realized this year I tried my hardest to surround myself with positive energy. Doing that has allowed my holiday spirit to flourish and things I typically was afraid of. I was able to tackle head-on and even embrace.

Life can be like that sometimes. Things we get scared of, we embrace when we have the support we need. It makes scary things a little less scary when you have a hand on your back telling you how everything will be ok. I learned a lot this year. About myself, about others. I learned you will fall. You’re allowed to make mistakes, people will hurt you. But I also learned people will catch you. People will forgive your mistakes and sometimes, sometimes even people can heal you.

Good luck!
-M

Hairbase-[i.mesh] – Hairbase#7 BLACK – CATWA/OMEGA
Electrodes- SEMLLER Gacha electrodes (rare)
Hospital gown- SEMLLER hospital gown gacha
Skin-AG trevor skin
Body-Belleza Jake
Shape-my own not for sale.

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First Frost.

First Frost.

“Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have – life itself”  –Walter Anderson

Hey guys!
WHOA! November is turning out to be one busy month. My boyfriend and I are in the middle of remodeling our sim. We thought it would be nice to have a big house filled with holiday feels. I’d like to thank people for the overwhelmingly positive response to my last blog! Your kind words really mean so much to me!

I want to talk quickly about blocking people for self-care. I’m also feeling very vulnerable about talking about this? But I was in a situation where after the millionth “I’m sorry” I decided it was time to block. I’m a firm believer that apologies that aren’t met with actual change are performative. And they’re bullshit.. We talk about blocking or muting when it comes to trolls. We don’t talk about muting and blocking when it comes to relationships. Or former relationships. Or friendships or former friendships. Because sometimes. Ya just have to block. Not because they are a bad person. But because they have been a bad person to you.

It takes one bad action to change your perspective on someone forever. I think it’s healthy to block someone for yourself. if I need to not exist to you on social media and I need you not to exist to me. And I need you stop making me part of your narrative. Because you’ve hurt me to the point where I can’t have a good day because I’m reminded of the bad things you’ve done to me. Then I reserve the right to block/mute/ban. I’ve noticed people tend to be like emotional vampires. They stay stuck in one mode, reading over everything you say and drawing their own absurd conclusions. They’ll suck up energy. and linger when theirs no need to especially when someone has clearly moved on. They’ll linger because perhaps they have nothing better to do? People have an aversion to hearing how you hurt them. They fire back with “you hurt me too’s” or “It was a bad day…”

 

People like this stay stuck. They stay stuck in the past because looking to the future frightens them. I don’t believe in that. I believe sometimes it’s best to let someone go before they hurt you even more. I believe in the good in people. I believe in remembering the good in people and dusting off your shoulders and moving forward. I wish these people had enough heart and self-love to do the same. Sometimes the healthiest and most spiritual cleansing thing you can do. Is taking a hard look at yourself in the mirror. Judge your own actions. As if they were being done to you. And ask yourself not how you can be a better person. But how you can be the best version of yourself. A good friend of mine recently told me “Life is a mirror, it’s reflective of who you are. If your friends cut you out of their lives completely. Then chances are, you handed them the scissors.”

So, here’s to being unstuck.
Good luck. -M

P.S Special thanks to the amazing minds at AviGlam for my glow up!

Antlers-Izzie’s – Reindeer Antlers & Rudolph’s Sparkly Nos
Hair-Lock&Tuft oscar @ShinyShabby
Eyes-Ikon hope eyes in chocolate.
Coat/shirt-:GB:: Fur Hoodie set @ShinyShabby
Cookie Cat-::Static:: Cookie Cat
Skin-AG. Trevor Skin – Catwa @MOM
Shape- my own not for sale
Body-Belleza- Jake Body

Bleach Blonde Baby.

Bleach Blonde Baby.

“If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you’re allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.” 
― Shannon L. Alder

Hey guys! October really flew by didn’t it? I was so busy, I’m gladly welcoming the calmness of November into my life. October is so magical to me. It’s the one month where anything can happen. Where light can meet shadow and I think theirs something powerful about that. We can be our darkest in October and those parts of us are celebrated. We can wear black and enough eyeliner to outline nine corpses and those things aren’t just accepted. They’re encouraged.

My boyfriend loves November. Today I was sitting outside enjoying the cold air on my face and I saw it. I saw how November is magical to him and how it became magical to me now too. The truth is November has its own magic. And being with my grumpy wolf has shown me that. I can see the warmth in what was otherwise a cold month for me. It’s nice to see you’re exactly where you need to be. Surrounded by people who love you.

It’s nice to be surrounded by real friends. It’s nice to know you can be yourself around people who care about you. I think in the end, that’s what we’re all asking for. People, we can be ourselves around. If you find that. If you’re able to dig through backstabbers and liars and toxic people who profit off your downfalls. If you’re able to find those bright little lights then you’re lucky. I know I sure am. 🙂

TMD opened. If you know me. you know I LOOOVE me some Kata0nik I nearly screamed when I saw this Juggy hat. I had to have it. I paired it with this crop top from Thirst and Noche booty shorts. Sometimes you just gotta log in an alt and go on a shopping spree. alrighty. that’s it for me. I’m gonna make some ramen and watch family guy!

Good Luck!

-M

 

Hat-*katat0nik* (dark) Juggy Hat @TMD
Moon Crescent-PUNCH / Crescent Moon
Ears- [MANDALA]STEKING_EARS_Season5
Shirt-THIRST – Crop Top – Jersey – Jake
Arm bands-NOCHE. Leather Arm Band@Kinky
Collar-**RE** Inked Collar
Shorts- NOCHE. Running Shorts//Black/

Stranger than Earth.

Stranger than Earth.

 

“To be of good quality, you have to excuse yourself from the presence of shallow and callow minded individuals.”
― Michael Bassey Johnson

 

Hey guys! I’d like to start off this blog by saying I hope you’re all having a wonderful fall! I’ve been all over shopping with my sir grumpy wolf. Am I the only one who noticed a large lacking of costumes this October? I haven’t been able to find to any costumes for men at all. I’ve been trying to make a few for Halloween pictures but can’t really seem to find what I’m looking for. If any of you know where to go for men’s costumes please tell me!

-M

Hat-!Abyss Designs! Puppy Pom Pom Hat
Hair- Stealthic – Rebellion @TMD
Scarf-[Vato Loko] Oversized Scarf
Jacket-::GB:: peacoat denim JK / Black @TMD
Ears- [MANDALA]STEKING_EARS_Season5
Eyes- IKON Hope Eyes- Rustic
skin- Bold&Beauty xin
Body- #TheMeshProject 
Shape-my own not for sale

Something Wicked.

Something Wicked.

“I have learned silence from the talkative, toleration from the intolerant, and kindness from the unkind; yet, strange, I am ungrateful to those teachers.” -Khalil Gibran

Hey guys! I hope you all had a lovely weekend! I sure did, my boyfriend and I are redecorating. October has hit Casa Balestra-Earnshaw and I couldn’t be happier! Maybe it’s the Halloween magic in the air. But lately, I’ve enjoyed watching exploration videos on youtube. Their’s something kind of somber but magical about seeing an abandoned building being explored. Something about vines, grass, and ruins I guess.  I attempted to do my own “exploration” type of photo.

The weather is getting colder and I can smell the autumn in the air. On my walks to the two stores, I frequent I can hear the leaves crunch beneath my feet. It’s a nice feeling. I’m ready to pumpkin everything!

I got this lovely shirt at TMD. I would suggest wearing the signature version if you have a tmp body. For some reason, it didn’t fit me around the biceps. I thought it was odd. Especially since my biceps aren’t very muscular. It’s still a wonderful shirt tho. Well, I hope you have a great day! I will start to blog more regularly. September is a bit of a busy month for me.

Good luck!
-M

Crown-*10: 4 ~ Mesh ~ King Royal Crown
Hair-[INK] Hair___SERIOUS
Ears-UNISEX[MANDALA]STEKING_EARS_Season 5
Neck Hickey-Unicult moon hickey
Jacket-::GB::One-shoulder jacket
Shirt-TonkTastic – Cotton tee
Arm bands-[CX] Spiked Fury – Clean Black
Skin-Bold and Beauty xin
Body-TMP
Shape-my own not for sale.

King and Lionheart.

King and Lionheart.

Some friendships are so strong they can even transcend lifetimes.” -Avatar Roku

Hey, what’s up, you guys! I’m so ready for fall. I’m ready to hear the leaves crunch beneath my feet. I’m ready to add pumpkin into everything I consume. I’m ready to be a basic witch. The Arcade opened and I got this lovely rare from Aii on my second or third try. I decided to name him Roku after avatar Roku because I’m a nerd. I’ve always loved the beautiful creations from Aii. I can see the thought and love she puts into her work and it inspires me with my blogging. I do wish the arcade had more Halloween inspired things. But I’m very happy with the things they had. I love the arcade and it’s one of the events I look forward to every time it strolls around.

I chose this quote for my blog because as a teenager, I lost someone close to me. Theirs something just very honest about that quote. We all long for relationships that can transcend lifetimes. Sometimes we meet someone and it’s hard to picture a life without them. I feel like this about a few people in my life. It’s nice to realize you’re in a happy place because the people who love you and support you have helped you get there. It’s a nice feeling to wake up and see the people who love you. Be there for you.

I’m happy the summer is over. I’m ready to start eating chili in soup mugs. I’m ready to throw leaves at my boyfriend while he grumbles but secretly loves it. It’s true what they say you know? Fall is for lovers. It’s for making a pile of leaves and rolling around together in. It’s for walking hand in hand to a coffee shop for a pumpkin spice whatever. It’s for carving pumpkins together and debating couples Halloween costumes.

Good luck!

-M

Hair flowers-*LODE* Head Accessory – Bagatiba Crown [white]
Hair-Action Inkubator HAIR Dima
Ears-UNISEX[MANDALA]STEKING_EARS_Season 5
Eyes-IKON Hope Eyes – Aqua
Kimono-::GB::Katahaori (TMP) Shiro
Dragon-+ RARE Single Dragon + {egosumaii}
Body-#TheMeshProject
Skin-Bold and beauty Xin
Shape-My own not for sale sahhry.

Rise up.

Rise up.

 

“Shout out to everyone transcending
a mindset, mentality, desire, belief,
emotion, habit, behavior or vibration,
that no longer serves them.”
― Lalah Delia

Hey, guys! I’m a blonde now! Well again. This was the first time doing blonde on my mesh head. I’ve gone platinum before but haven’t on my mesh head and I have to say after blasting Fefe Dobson’s – As a Blonde  I needed to bad. Can we please give Stealthic a major round of applause for continuing to release really beautiful men’s hair?

Designers sometimes forget dudes exist, it’s probably why we’re  all so grouchy when it comes to events. But it’s so nice to see a designer continuing to put out great products for men.

I was a little nervous about putting this picture out as I worked very hard on it. But my boyfriend gave me some wonderful words of encouragement as he often does. It’s nice to be around people who treat you with respect and kindness so please surround yourself with love.

Alrighty! Sorry to cut this short! But! a flower crown and a white comfy shirt are calling my name!

Goodluck!

-M

Hair-Stealthic – Hysteria @Fameshed
Horns-PUNCH / Devil Horns
Eyes-IKON Hope Eyes – Rustic
Ears-[MANDALA]STEKING_EARS_Season 5
Outfit-[Gild] Long tanktop with short_black @Fameshed
Skin-Bold&Beauty xin
Shape- My own not for sale